She sits on a red, white & blue green five gallon bucket that says, “drywall-compound.” Most of the fingers on her gloves are missing and frayed. She wears an army-green trash-bag raincoat that is big enough to cover all but her Nike sneakers. Her breathing makes little clouds in the icy drizzle. She is almost always at this particular corner and she always waves when I go by---even though I sense that if the car was empty she would still wave. I do what I can to avoid eye contact---but never succeed in avoiding feeling guilty. Her haggard cardboard sign says that she is homeless, hungry and that she wants God to bless me. For sure----by comparison----“something” has truly blessed me. It is more likely that I have merely won the lottery----and that I am just not willing to accept that God would make such choices for our lives. The parent in me can’t help but think that she is, or was, someone’s Princess. Also, I can’t help but wonder what her parents wrestle with every day as a result of what she has become or not become----but then again perhaps they themselves are on a street corner somewhere----or somewhere worse. Can they afford to care? On their best days do they merely forget? And what does the Princess think? Does she care? Can she afford to care? On her best days does she merely forget? Thanks-giving. I find it impossible to comprehend my own good fortune relative to what I see in the lives of some others. For the large majority of us in this great country, the current economic “crisis” pales in comparison to how fortunate we actually are. The choices we make----that bring each of us to where we are----are not as predictable as we almost have to believe. I am sure it soothes our consciences, to think that people like my Pail Princess got to where they are totally of their own making----refusing to accept that we are all closer to our own cardboard signs than we can afford to admit. We may even be co-conspirators in their presence----if not co-dependent. As we gobble our turkey today (or its substitutes), I would like for us to wonder: if we plucked off all our own feathers what would we find underneath? Hopefully we would each find the best turkey that we can be----and there would be plenty to go around. Let us each dig down deep and muster all the thankfulness we can. Happy Thanksgiving everyone! Charles Buell
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I believe the best type of charity in these times is giving to the local food bank. They are one of the few charities where almost everything you give goes directly to the people in need. Just because a charity is "non-profit", doen't mean much.
Here is to hoping that all deserving people get enough to eat today and everyday.
Charles - the best turkey we can be underneath all the fluff and fanfare. Amen to that! We are so incredibly blessed and live is amazing abundance compared to most of the world. I too am one of those that we create it all - our lives are a reflection of our thoughts. Think good thoughts Turkeys!
Happy Thanks & Giving to YOU and Yours!
We are definately very blesssed in this country compared to many others in the world.
Happy Thanksgiving
This country is blessed for a reason. I am thankful to be here, and not there, wherever there is.
And it IS full of turkeys...
Happy Holiday Charlie.
Ralph, I agree with you about that being a good place to give.
Anna, thanks
Theodora---so true
Jay, to paraphrase, "the turkeys will always be among us."
dear Mr Charles,
Did you know that the boss and I call you one big turkey.
nUTSY
Charles, I like the fact that you realize we are blessed and are so thankful. So many people take it for granted. I hope you had a wonderful Thanksgiving!
Charles, after this blog I've decided that you really are not full of baloney like Nutsy said you were. : )
Nutsy---you-----squirrel
Thanks Russell---it was a very nice Thanksgiving---I trust you had a nice one as well.
Barbara, thanks----I don't even like baloney:)
Thanks for this reminder of how lucky we are and to really appreciate it ... and thanks for a great dinner and afternoon! I am thankful you are my family!
H-m-m-m, took me awhile to wrap my bird brain around this one especially after stuffing myself with turkey and stuffing yesterday...
Helping you live your American dream...
Charels - I have often wondered all the same things you did. One thing I have learned though is do not give them money. Give them food because most of the time they just take the money and purchase drugs. I was down town one year and saw someone with a sign much like theirs. I went down to the McDonalds and bought them a burger and fries. When I took it back to them, they threw it in my face and said they didn't want the food just give them the money!! I now just give to food banks also!
Chrissy, glad you liked it----we have a great family don't we? :)
Michael, yes---the "turkey effect"
Tami---most likely a good idea
I look at my children and wonder what they will become and what kind of world they will inherit. Those thoughts cause me the most trepidation.
Does imaging a person like the Pail Princess as a child make us more compassionate towards their situation? Does it open our hearts as we would to children. It's a good reminder to think of everyone as someones child.